She Comes This Morning

The call came from the DCF worker yesterday afternoon. We made an appointment for this morning at 8 am. She seemed really nice on the phone, just said she wanted to meet and clear this up. Although she couldn't tell me over the phone what the report said I am pretty sure that I know what it says.

Last week this psychiatrist said he was on the fence about whether he thought that this would benefit "Z". As of right now my husband (who acts like a child as well) has taken this as "Z" told on him. All he has said to "Z" is hi and bye, will not associate with him at all. I look at it as, you can't blame a child who was scared. "Z" is going to this place for help and if something at home bothers him, he is supposed to talk about it. Maybe my husband will realize that behaviors of his have consequences too.

I decided that after all this is cleared up that I will be sending "Z" to another program. This decision is not based on the fact that the psychiatrist sent a report to DCF but because this man was careless and did not take the time to read the file for accurate information before having a converstation with me . Granted it was a mistake but this is my child we are talking about and if you are not clear with your facts before you open your mouth then as far as I am concerned, you are not capable of taking care of my child.