I'm A Little Dumbfounded

My husband did not go to his class Wednesday. No surprise! He actually went to his friends house and pretty much got bombed because he did not go to work yesterday, he said he wasn't feeling good.

He tried to reassure me that everything was fine. I asked if he knew for sure whether or not this place wouldn't make the call to DCF about him not following the recommendation and this is what he said "No I don't know, but do you think I wouldn't go if my mom didn't say it would be fine. I already checked with her and she said the case is closed."

Do you see anything odd in that statement? I found a few things..

#1. He is going to be 31 in 6 days. You still need your moms approval?

#2. How would his mom know the case is closed? Because she works for DCF as a social worker!

#3. In light of #2, how comforting is it to know that a representative of the state and our states children is giving advice to her family member to go against the recommendation of an agency who is supposed to protect our children.

#4. Again, why would you listen to your mom.

What bothers me the most is, she has been after him since last summer to seek help. She herself is a recovering alcoholic and she knows the importance of this. I know people only do things when they want and not when forced to, but my husband didn't even make an effort, he went to one f'in class. Because his mommy said he didn't have to go.

I have never liked that bitch and have had very little respect for her in the past. Now, I have absolutely no respect for her and as a mandated reporter for the state shame on her!! She has helped destroy my family a little bit quicker.

Unfortunately over vacation I said that if he didn't follow through then ultimately the marriage would be over. She said "You'd better leave now then." I should have known..