I wonder how many people just shuttered at that word. Those who pay it, those who are supposed to get it and don't, those who hate the idea that their spouse has to pay it...I am sure there are all kinds.
Seems as though the idea of me writing out a child support check for my step daughter isn’t something I should have to do. I am not quite sure why.
My opinion, I don’t think it matters who writes the check as long as it gets done. My husband did it before me and will do it after me, but right now I do it and so my checkbook will balance every time.
What are your thoughts about that?
Just so people know (you know who you are and I am no quite sure what the point of telling your husband to post a comment at my blog was about but it is a free country)...my son is owed $1000's in support and his step mother could give a shit less. When he was a baby he ran out of diapers at their house, diapers that I left there, paid for with my own money and no I wasn't getting child support. His dad went to buy them and she was mad and said I owed her money for them...that is the kind of women she is! But that is not me..
Now that I am agitated it is time to take my sick ass home, take some medicine and prepare for another day at work..But who knows, maybe I will be back later..Till then have a great night..
Wow. I'm surprised I upset you so much. Why do you care what I think anyway?
ReplyDeleteWriting the check just isn't something I think you should have to do is all, but if you do it *shrug*
I'm supposed to get child support for my 6 year old. A whopping $184 a month, plus a little more for arrears making it $215. But child support enforcement won't collect for various reasons. My son doesn't have a stepmother (at least not that I know of..haven't spoken to the biological father in about 4 years now) but even if he did I wouldn't think it should be her responsibility to write the check. But I guess I'm weird and old fashioned like that.
For the record, I didn't know my husband commented till I found this post. You gotta admit, that's kind of funny that we both found your blog through blog explosion.
Now I think it is weird that you posted that he will write the check "after you." Wanna write a blog post about that? ;)
wow...drama...:)
ReplyDeleteI am trying to figure out what's happening but kinda lost LOL
Modern Princess: Most likely it will happen..
ReplyDeleteMob Princess: sometimes I can't either!
DiamondsSaphire, you amuse me. ;)
ReplyDeleteYou know, I just figured out who you remind me of and why you amuse me so much. My old biology lab partner! You write kind of the way she talks.
ReplyDeleteI am glad I amuse someone! :0)...stand by for hubbie drama...cuz it is coming!
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